By: Sondra Nunez
NFBPWC Secretary 2022-2024

To my NFBPWC sisters near and far, Happy Holidays! Yes, I specifically wrote Happy Holidays because I often hear and see conflict, drama and offense surrounding this one simple phrase. Many argue in December, it’s Merry Christmas and nothing else. But to some it is Happy Hanukkah, Happy Boxing Day, Happy Kwanzaa, or any number of other phrases that significantly represent the true meaning of the season in ways personal to each person. 

For me, December with all its many holidays and personal traditions, represents a time of joy, reflection, and renewal. 

Joy: I count it a joy I am able to give to others. I count it a joy seeing the faces of those big and small light up as they share holiday traditions with those they love. I count it a joy to spend time preparing gifts for those who need a little bit of help this year. I count it a joy spending time in celebration with friends and family.

Reflection: For me, the holidays, especially the time between Thanksgiving and Christmas, is when I spend the most time reflecting on every life blessing and how I might be able to share what has been given to me with others. I reflect on those who are suffering, on those who are battling illness, or the loss of loved ones and I pray they will find peace. There is reflection of the accomplishments and challenges of the year and how I might do better, be better in the future.

Renewal: In many ways the month of December represents renewal to me. It is the signal of the end of one year and the beginning of the next. It is a time to allow myself to let go of offenses and to ask for forgiveness for those I might have wronged. For me, December offers the opportunity to show up for others in the best way possible and offers a glimpse of the person I want to become. 

No matter how you celebrate this time of year, whether this year was difficult, successful or a combination of both and more, I pray you and your loved ones will be blessed with joy, peace, and love. No matter the holiday you are celebrating, I wish you continued and lasting happiness.