You Are Cordially Invited to Attend, or Not Attend, the ABSENT-TEA Fundraiser

Hosted by the National Federation of Business and Professional Women's Clubs

Who doesn't love fancy finger foods accompanied by tea in China cups (pinkies up) and all the formality of a traditional high tea? Only, in this instance, there's no need for you to purchase a new outfit, travel to a destination, tip the valet, or any of the other added expenses when attending an event, because this is an ABSENT-TEA.

By purchasing tickets, you have the honor of supporting the National Federation of Business and Professional Women's Clubs (NFBPWC) from the comfort of your home! We have taken all the hassle out of coming (or not) to our ABSENT-TEA.

However, we will be hosting a Friday evening get-together on November 21, 2025, at 8 pm EDT. You can bring your favorite teacup and tea or another beverage of your choice and enjoy the company of your BPW sisters.

NFBPWC is raising funds to help support our officers so they can represent us at various events to further the business of our Federation, along with other vital projects.

Select how many tickets you and your group need. Then choose the type of tickets you want.

• Just My Cup tickets are $20 each.
• Brew and Bloom tickets are $50.
• The Queen's Cup tickets are$100.
• The Garden Table tickets are $200 each.
• The Sparkling Steep Society tickets are $300.
• Credit or debit card? Visit our website and click the "Donate Now" button.
•  Zelle? Send payment to Treasurer@nfbpwc.org
• Check? Make it out to NFBPWC, write ABSENT-TEA in the memo, and mail it to: Jo Naylorm392 Springhouse Road, King of Prussia, PA 19406.

Want to help the NFBPWC with another amount? Any and all donations are greatly appreciated!!

Here's how to pay:

• Credit or debit card? Visit our website and click the "Donate Now" button.
• Zelle? Send payment to Treasurer@nfbpwc.org
• Check? Make it out to NFBPWC, write ABSENT-TEA in the memo, and mail it to: Jo Naylor 392 Springhouse Road, King of Prussia, PA 19406.

Thank you for your support.

SANDY THOMPSON
FINANCE CHAIR NFBPWC

On October 22nd, we had an engaging and informative program on Grant Writing including a lively discussion with three women who write and distribute grants. Our speakers included Renne Johnson, president of Third Wheel Cause Consulting; Edna Karinski, CEO Community Foundation of the Verdugos; and Kelly Klug, Director of Grants Development for Central Carolina Community College.

They were able to give us insight into how to start the process of writing a grant proposal and what you need to know and have before you submit one. They also provided several tips for grant writing.

They are willing to provide a more detailed Grant Writing 101 Course if people are interested. If you are, please email me directly.

DID YOU KNOW?

Before 1974, American women couldn’t open a bank account or get a credit card without a man’s signature. Financial independence wasn’t just rare — it was legally restricted.

So, in 1978, eight Colorado women — Carol Green, Judi Wagner, LaRae Orullian, Gail Schoettler, Wendy Davis, Joy Burns, Beverly Martinez, and Edna Mosely — decided to change that. Each contributed $1,000 to start something revolutionary: The Women’s Bank, built by and for women.

On opening day, lines wrapped around the block in downtown Denver. Women came to deposit their savings — and their faith— into an institution that finally saw them as equals. By nightfall, the bank had collected over $1 million in deposits.

The Women’s Bank wasn’t just a business. It was a declaration: that women didn’t need permission to own, build, or lead. Their courage didn’t just rewrite banking rules — it redefined what financial freedom could look like.

They didn’t ask for a seat at the table. They built their own vault.

PS: You are cordially Invited toAttend or Not Attend our Absent-Tea fundraiser. See next page for details!

Sandy Thompson

Finance Chair

Meaningful Community Impact in the Governance of our Organization

We believe visionary leadership begins with a wide lens, one that embraces the full scope of our mission, our members, and the communities we serve.

But vision alone does not create impact. It must be paired with intentional action, inclusive governance, and the unwavering resolve to stand as allies in progress.

Leadership at NFBPWC is not just about seeing the path forward, it’s about walking it together.

It’s about stepping forward as allies, amplifying diverse voices, and building meaningful change through connection, compassion, and collective strength.

We move from big picture to fully focused by:

Centering Purpose in Policy: Every bylaw, every vote, every decision is an opportunity to reflect our values, including equity, transparency, and empowerment. Governance becomes a living expression of our advocacy.

Elevating Diverse Voices: We create space for emerging leaders, seasoned mentors, and every member in between. Through structured engagement and open dialogue, we ensure that leadership is not just representative, it’s inclusive and responsive.

Translating Vision into Strategy: Our strategic planning is rooted in clarity and collaboration. We align our goals with community needs, ensuring that our organizational structure supports real- world impact.

Celebrating Accountability as Empowerment: We hold ourselves to high standards not to restrict, but to uplift. Accountability is how we honor our commitments and build trust across generations.

Acting with Heart and Intention: Whether we’re advocating for health awareness, mentoring future leaders, or hosting inclusive events, our governance is guided by empathy and excellence.

In every meeting, every initiative, and every moment of reflection, we ask: How does this serve our members? How does this strengthen our community? How does this honor our legacy while building a future?

Because at NFBPWC, governance isn’t just structure, it’s service. And when we lead as allies in action, we don’t just manage an organization. We move a movement.

Angie Jackson-Wilson

Bylaws and Resolutions Chair

Incredible Benefits Available to Leaders, Members, and Affiliate Organizations

INDIVIDUAL BENEFITS

• Cultivate worldwide friendships in one of the original women’s organizations.
• Formal Lifetime Leadership and Learning (L3) personal and professional growth education programs.
• Formal mentoring program.
• Business networking opportunities to market and support your own business and professional services.
• Access to the Young BPW program (ages 18-35) that is supported both globally and nationally.
• Access to student membership opportunities.
• Members-only directory supporting members and their organizations.
• Participate in the United Nations system worldwide through the Commission on the Status of Women and other programs annually.
• Invitation to attend the Biennial General Assembly for NFBPWC, the Triennial Congress for BPW International Conferences, and the BPW International Leaders’ Summit.
• Informative monthly magazine that compiles our efforts across the globe and empowers members through education.

AFFILIATION BENEFITS

• Dedicated Executive Committee and Board of Directors working to achieve the mission and goals of NFBPWC while supporting a member-based organization.
• Connection to a network of hundreds of women nationally and over 3,000 women internationally in 100 countries.
• Leadership opportunities locally, regionally, nationally, and globally.
• National support through a coordinated digital communication platform, social media, email, website, video conferencing, and monthly magazine.
• Platforms and leaders that support membership growth and brainstorm for recruitment.
• Access to a national 501c3 parent organization and guidance in creating localized nonprofit status.
• Support and guidance for documents and procedures needed to run an effective, efficient, and thriving organization.
• Vibrant Young BPW and BPW Student programs to support growth and new leadership.
• Rapid response system for members to advocate for legislative issues affecting working women.

Engage with NFBPWC on Social Media

Organization Page:   https://www.facebook.com/NatlFedBPWC/

Group Page: https://www.facebook.com/NatlFedBPWC/

Organization Page: https://www.linkedin.com/company/nfbpwc

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC2l_ciIxLyvbu1dbBOsV9Tg

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nfbpwc_usa/

For information please email.

ANGIE JACKSON-WILSON
NOMINATIONS CHAIR
2024-2026

“Inspire, Innovate, Empower, Transform – Together We Shape a Sustainable Future”

Greetings BPW Sisters!

Fall is coming as the leaves on some of the trees here in Canada are starting to turn to their beautiful autumn colors.

NAC held a webinar this month, hosted by our Advocacy Coordinator Colleen Babiuk-Ilkew, titled Advocacy on the Line – Crafting Position Papers to Spark Change.

We appreciate the participation of those of you from NFBPWC who were able to attend, and the tech assistance provided by President Barbara. The recording will be shared when it’s been formatted, so those who were unable to attend can watch and learn as much as we did.

By the time you read this we will also have had our webinar, hosted by Training Coordinator Sujata Tiwari, titled Empowering BPW Leaders. The information shared here will help us all become better leaders and as soon as it is ready, we will be sharing it.

Exciting News! We have booked the hotel for our NAC Regional Conference. We look forward to seeing you at the Hilton Niagara Falls/Fallsview Hotel in Niagara Falls, Ontario, Canada, August 23-25, 2026. Our Youth Symposium will be on the afternoon of August 23rd.

We have some other fabulous speakers and events planned for the whole conference, and I know it will energize us all!!

Please make your plans to attend now!

Shuttles are available from Buffalo and Toronto Pearson Airports to Niagara Falls every day for those who need to fly. Amtrak travels directly to Niagara Falls Canada, and you can carpool with other members if you prefer to drive.

There will not be another International Event this close to the US for many years, so now is the time to attend. It’s also a great chance to meet members from around the world!

You can always plan to spend an extra day or two to see the sites in this beautiful region.

Karin Gorgerat
BPW International Regional Coordinator
North America and caribean

For information please email.    

LARISA MILLER
BPW GALWAY & NFBPWC USA
NFBPWC INTERNATIONAL RELATIONS CHAIR
(2024-2026)

The Virtual Health Event on September 20th was a success. We had a lot of great speakers who gave us plenty of information. Lots of it is in the following articles and more will be shared via the NFBPWC social media posts throughout the coming months.

As we finish off the year for this committee, we will focus on working on our page on the NFBPWC website and our project to collaborate more with Houston Medical Center.

How Did Breast Cancer Awareness Month Come to Be? A Look at Breast Cancer in Women

October marks Breast Cancer Awareness Month—a time to honor the advocates, survivors, and researchers who have transformed this disease from a silent killer into a call to action. Since 1989, breast cancer deaths have dropped by 44%, saving more than 500,000 lives. The pink ribbon remains a powerful symbol of hope, but awareness only matters when it leads to action.

Early Detection Matters

Knowing your body is the first line of defense. Monthly self-exams help you notice changes such as lumps, soreness, nipple discharge, or skin irregularities.

Women of all ages should check monthly—post- menopausal women should pick the same date each month. If you find something unusual, call your healthcare provider promptly. Remember: 8 out of 10 lumps are not cancer.

Common Signs and Symptoms

• Unexplained changes in breast size or shape
• Dimpling or skin changes
• Swelling or shrinkage on one side
• Inverted nipple or new discharge (especially clear or bloody)
• Noticeable asymmetry or persistent pain More details from the CDC.

Types of Breast Cancer

Breast cancer isn’t just one disease. Some of the most common types include:

• DCIS: early, non-invasive and highly treatable
• IDC & ILC: invasive cancers that spread to nearby tissue
• Triple Negative & Inflammatory: rare but aggressive
•  Metastatic: spreads to bones, liver, lungs, or brain

More details from the American Cancer Society.

Understanding the Stages

• Stage 0–1: Earliest forms, highly treatable, ~99% survival.
• Stage 2–3: Invasive, may spread to lymph nodes; ~87–99% survival.
• Stage 4: Advanced, with spread to other organs. Not curable, but treatable—many now live years.

More details from the American Cancer Society.

Myths and Misconceptions

Don’t let myths cloud your judgment:

• Injuries, bras, or deodorant do not cause breast cancer.
• Breast size doesn’t affect risk.
• Mammograms don’t spread cancer.
• Most women diagnosed have no family history.
• Breast cancer is not contagious.

What About the Boys?

While Breast Cancer Awareness lasts the whole month of October, the week of the 17th – 23rd is dedicated to the disease in men.

How much do men really know about their possibility of breast cancer?

Men should be familiar with how their breasts typically look and feel so they can detect any changes in the tissue.

Risks and Stats

• Male breast cancer represents about 1% of all breast cancers in the U.S.
• The average lifetime risk is 1 in 726.
• In 2024, about 2,800 men were diagnosed, and roughly 530 died.
• Most cases are diagnosed between ages 60–70.
• Family history, BRCA gene mutations, hormone imbalances, obesity, alcohol use, liver disease, testicular conditions, radiation, and smoking can all increase risk.

Survival Rates

• Localized (early stage): ~95%
• Regional (spread to nearby structures/lymph nodes): ~84%
• Distant (spread to other organs): ~20%

Signs and Symptoms

Men should know how their chest typically looks and feels, and report changes such as:

• A lump under or near the nipple or armpit
• Pain or tenderness in the nipple or breast
• Skin dimpling, redness, or puckering
• Nipple discharge, rash, or sores
• An inverted (turned inward) nipple

Because many men delay reporting symptoms, diagnosis often comes late. Early detection makes treatment more effective. Most common breast cancer types in men

• DCIS: early, non-invasive and highly treatable
• IDC: invasive ductal carcinoma, the most common in both men and women

Stages are gauged the same way they are for women. More from the American Cancer Society.

Diagnosing breast cancer:

• Physical exam (self-checks + doctor’s exam)
• Mammogram or ultrasound to detect lumps
• Biopsy to confirm diagnosis
• Other tests (blood markers, scans) may guide treatment decisions.

More from The Mayo Clinic.

Support:

There are two organizations specifically for men:

• Male Breast Cancer Global Alliance shares tools and resources for men
• HIS Breast Cancer Awareness offers educational information and support for men facing the disease.

This is a summary. Click here for entire article.

Personal Stories from Our Members

My Own Breast Cancer Journey

Bonnie O’Leary, BSN, RN, LGBHQC, LNC, Washington State President

My journey into the need for a complete mastectomy was interesting and a little scary. My history: I was in my twenties for my first biopsy since I had cervical cancer removal then! The doctor said I should have a hysterectomy then, but I had not had any children yet, so I declined. I finally had a son, then, within a week after my daughter was born, the doctor insisted on a hysterectomy.

I have had multiple in-person and robot type breast biopsies every six to 12 months over a 40-year period due to dense tissue and my previous cancer. During one regular six-month check-up, I was informed of suspicious areas in both breasts. Both of my breasts had multiple dimpling at all the biopsied areas. Most biopsies had come back as pre-cancer in both breasts, but none had been diagnosed as cancer until the end of 2019.

Surprise: Then COVID happened! I had been working as a pre-surgical quality review nurse for a surgical office in a hospital. I was laid off in February 2020, since all surgeries, except emergencies, were cancelled. Timewise, this worked out because I had to undergo pre-surgical labs and x-rays myself for the suspicious areas, especially in my left breast. I was also referred to cardiology. I knew I had an aortic valve with two leaves inherited from my father and was a little short of breath, but I was not concerned about my heart at that time.

Cardiology Scare: It turned out that I had only a 6% opening in the aortic valve in my heart, so I had to undergo a TAVR procedure (valve replacement) prior to considering breast surgery. If they had not done a thorough pre-surgical exam, I could have died in surgery from a clogged valve! I was monitored for a month at home before I received approval to undergo breast surgery.

Surgery In addition to my own history, my younger sister and two of my cousins on my father’s side, had all undergone bilateral mastectomies a few months before mine. As you read earlier in this article, this is one of the risk factors.

I followed this information in making my final decision. The original plan, prior to the TAVR, was to just have a focused laser to the biopsy area to destroy any remaining cancerous cells post biopsy. This original plan could not work since the new heart valve was in line with the laser beam. After further discussions with my oncologist and my husband and bearing in mind the history of my family’s mastectomies and my history of multiple biopsies, we decided to undergo bilateral removals.

The surgery went well with close cardiology monitoring. A few weeks after the mastectomies, Ihadbilateral implants placed above the chest muscles. Another good thing was that the plastic surgeon was able to save my nipples and sew them back on. My breasts looked normal post-op.

Post-op: I had three surgeries in two months and had a long healing period, including a cardiology monitored exercise program at the hospital for three months. I went back to work, virtually from home, as a COVID lab review nurse in September of 2020.

The bottom line here is do not avoid doing your manual self-checks or skip your annual physician and mammography exams. Even though I did both checks, I could not feel my lumps due to the tissue density, biopsy scarring, and depth of the tumors. You never know! Don’t assume.

The journey was scary – receiving my new heart valve and two breast surgeries in a short period of time, but I kept my faith. It’s been five years now and I am alive due to the new heart valve, and my breasts look fabulous, due to the excellent skill of the surgeons. It is nice that you have choices of size of implants, under or over the chest muscles, and ability to keep your nipples (if the surgeon says it is possible based on the area of the cancer).

My Breast Cancer Journey

Judy Keyt, MBA, BSN, RN, Washington State Secretary Did you know that one out of every eight women in Washington will be diagnosed with breast cancer? Or that everyone will eventually know someone who has it?

The probability is high, and preventive measures are imperative.

My family history: We often think breast cancer is only or mainly genetic. Surprisingly, many cases are not genetically linked.

Seems odd. My mother had breast cancer and a double mastectomy with a year of chemo. I still remember the day she begged me to put her to sleep. My sister is also a breast cancer survivor and recently underwent a double mastectomy with reconstruction. I guided her to take that action which I will explain later. I am a two-time breast cancer survivor with a double mastectomy and reconstruction. None of us are genetically linked.

My journey started at the age of 40. At that time, mammograms were considered unnecessary at that age, which we know now was a big diagnostic mistake. I am grateful that I am a nurse and was working as a hospital administrator at the time. My OB GYN agreed to order a mammogram. The first reading was negative. My buddy in radiology was bored one night and decided to look at it again. He detected cancer. If this hadn’t happened, I would not be here writing this today. I was engaged to be married. My surgeon returned from vacation and performed a lumpectomy, being careful that the incision would not show in my wedding dress. The surgery occurred six days before my wedding. My journey entailed high dose radiation and tamoxifen for 5 years.

RECURRENCE: At year six, the cancer returned with some suspicion in the right breast. I consulted my surgeon and made the decision to reduce the risk of return and undergo a double mastectomy with reconstruction and nine months of high dose chemotherapy, all while I worked full time. I learned there is a high probability of uterine or ovarian cancer, so I elected to also have a full hysterectomy. He said if you were my wife or sister, I would encourage you to do this. That’s all it took. He saved my life

EMOTIONS: My first thought when I heard I had breast cancer was “I don’t want to die.” Fear set in, followed by anger. “It’s not fair!” I struggled with the feeling of not being a female – no breasts, no uterus – how would I describe myself? Today I am a Breast Cancer Supporter and volunteer to guide other women through their journey.

THE IMAGES: “He won’t love me.” “I’m a freak.” “Who would want to be with me?” After many years I’ve found all those thoughts were not true, although there is always someone out there that can’t deal with it.

Hair loss is another image hurdle you may deal with, but you will survive, and your hair will grow back.

MY ADVICE: Don’t ever just “wait and watch and check it later.” BIG Mistake! Don’t take baby steps with a lumpectomy, radiation, tamoxifen… Cancer will most likely return any given time. I absolutely recommend a mastectomy and wish I had made that choice initially, although that is a very difficult choice to make at that time. Radiation destroys the elasticity and texture of your skin for life, and I believe these steps are a band aid. Chemo and the drugs they have today make it more bearable.

I encourage everyone to make the choice, as difficult as it is, and eliminate cancer before it’s too late.

All articles by Bonnie O’Leary (Washington State President) and Judy Keyt (Washington State Secretary) The Health Committee meets on the 4th Monday of the month, unless there are conflicts or holidays. Our next meeting is October 26, 2025.

Susan Oser
Chair

Don’t forget! We are hosting an engaging and informative Grant Writing Panel, designed to empower individuals and organizations seeking funding for their projects, programs, or research.

• Date: October 22, 2025
• Time: 8 p.m. EDT
• Location: Zoom

Register on the National Website. You will receive a link to the event via email.

Join us for an insightful discussion with experienced grant writers, funders, and nonprofit leaders as they share practical strategies, insider tips, and lessons learned from successful proposals. Whether you're new to grant writing or looking to sharpen your skills, this panel is an excellent opportunity to gain valuable knowledge and get answers to your questions directly from experts.

Panel Topics Include:

• Identifying the right funding opportunities
• Crafting compelling narratives
•  Budgeting tips and common pitfallsUnderstanding funder expectations
• Q&A with the panelists The panelists are:
• Kelly Klug - Third Wheel Cause Consulting
• Renee Johnson - Director of Grants for Central Carolina Community College
• Edna Karinski – Community Foundation of the Verdugos

We hope to see you there!
Also, make sure to check out the flyer about our ABSENT-TEA fundraiser (p31)! It’s a great way to support our organization.

Sandy Thompson NFBPWC
Finance Chair

EVERY WOMAN’S SUCCESS SHOULD BE AN INSPIRATION TO ANOTHER, WE’RE STRONGEST WHEN WE CHEER EACH OTHER ON.

-Serena Williams World-class athlete